enoch says... oh i know that kiddo and my comment was not really directed to those people. my comment was an over generalization in many ways. i realize some have been harrassed and abused and were forced to use that option. i was just bemoaning in a very public way a hypocrisy and bullying i found disturbing.so many voices have left due to this and i was waxing nostalgic over that loss. its the anarchist in me =) maybe my time here is over and i have said what i needed to say.time to pass the torch to another group. i dunno... i know you and your hubby were one of the good ones.miss both your voices. stay awesome kiddo! Lann said: Everyone who uses that option has their own reason as to why they use it. Just a thought, it may or may not fit your idea as to why you think they use it.