lantern53 says... Why would I want to sit down with someone who takes every opportunity to call me a racist, or shitty, etc? Perhaps if you could work on the charm part of your personality...? Do I call you names? All I want for you is for you to make the best of your circumstances, but you only seem to want to look at your circumstances, make everyone tell you how sad your life is, that you have no hope etc. You seem quite content in your life, so perhaps that is your atunement. When you are ready to move on, you will put all of this behind you, including me, and you'll make something of your life. (I only assume you've done nothing with your life because you never say anything about it other than 'woe is me', white people are racist etc) At least you have internet! You could google 'famous black people' or something like that, and see how they became successful. GenjiKilpatrick said: Here's an idea. You, Me, & your biracial son-in-law all hangout. We can all sit down, scroll thru your past comments, and we'll let him decide which comments he thinks could be construed as "racist as fuck". That way, it's someone you know. Someone you trust. Someone on your team helping you realize.. "wow, if I ever said any of this shit to my biracial grandkid.. they would definitely be upset, angry, and feel like shit." Don't be a coward. Take me up on my offer. We can use Google Hangouts or Skype. Don't even have to leave your house. Oh wait, you don't give a fuck. Oh well.. guess you'll have to keep being a shitty person.